Showing posts with label love. Show all posts
Showing posts with label love. Show all posts

Saturday, January 18, 2014

Love and other feelings..


Life is a composition of little happinesses and big sorrows. Nobody advises you to keep your hopes high on happiness.They ask you to understand the meaning of little things, perfect moments, even seconds and they wish you to appreciate the secret of little great moments. Nobody expects you to be fully merry and happy most of the time for all your life. Happiness is like a butterfly which you cannot grab easily yet it vanishes in a single instant. Happiness is one breathing. However, it takes quite a long time to relieve pain by all means. The perception of time, as well, changes exactly the opposite through the times of happiness and grief. Among these feelings we live. Life goes on. We eat, sleep, go to work, read, write, watch movies, text, dream, travel, act, pretend, sing, work out, swim, water plants, run, cook, clean, etc. We all live, have plenty of experiences and go through one feeling to another like a butterfly, again.

Not long ago, I had the chance to meet a few new books and reading them helped me to be happy. I'd like to share some of good quotes that belong to the great Japanese writer, Haruki Murakami. Some of the photos I have taken will accompany these meaningful readings. Each quotation has a different feeling, one of which may catch your mind or your heart or both, hopefully.



“And once the storm is over, you won’t remember how you made it through, how you managed to survive. You won’t even be sure, whether the storm is really over. But one thing is certain. When you come out of the storm, you won’t be the same person who walked in. That’s what this storm’s all about.”  
“Most things are forgotten over time. Even the war itself, the life-and-death struggle people went through is now like something from the distant past. We’re so caught up in our everyday lives that events of the past are no longer in orbit around our minds. There are just too many things we have to think about everyday, too many new things we have to learn. But still, no matter how much time passes, no matter what takes place in the interim, there are some things we can never assign to oblivion, memories we can never rub away. They remain with us forever, like a touchstone.” 

The Agean Sea, where love is passionate..
“They sat on a park bench, held hands, and told each other their stories hour after hour. They were not lonely anymore. They had found and been found by their 100% perfect other. What a wonderful thing it is to find and be found by your 100% perfect other. It's a miracle, a cosmic miracle.” 

“She was hearing everything that went on in his heart, like a person who can trace a map with his fingertip and conjure up vivid, living scenery.” 

“Sometimes when I look at you, I feel I'm gazing at a distant star. It's dazzling, but the light is from tens of thousands of years ago.Maybe the star doesn't even exist any more. Yet sometimes that light seems more real to me than anything.” 

“It's because of you when I'm in bed in the morning that I can wind my spring and tell myself I have to live another good day.” 


Happiness :)
 "No mistake about it. Ice is cold; roses are red; I'm in love. And this love is about to carry me off somewhere. This current's too overpowering; I don't have any choice. It may very well be a  special place, some place I've never seen before. Danger may be lurking there, something that may end up wounding me deeply, fatally. I might end up losing everything. But there's no turning back. I can only go with the flow. Even if it means I'll be burned up, gone forever.” 

"I really wanted to see you,” I said.“And I really wanted to see you, too,” she said. “When I couldn’t see you any more, I realized that. It was as clear as if the planets all of a sudden lined up in a row for me. I really need you. You’re a part of me; I’m a part of you."


Nature could be one meaningful cause of happiness..

 “Good and evil are not fixed, stable entities but are continually trading places. A good may be transformed into an evil in the next second. And vice versa. Such was the way of the world that Dostoevsky depicted in The Brothers Karamazov. The most important thing is to maintain the balance between the constantly moving good and evil. If you lean too much in either direction, it becomes difficult to maintain actual morals. Indeed, balance itself is the good.” 


“Why do people have to be this lonely? What's the point of it all? Millions of people in this world, all of them yearning, looking to others to satisfy them, yet isolating themselves. Why? Was the earth put here just to nourish human loneliness?”  

"What a terrible thing it is to wound someone you really care for and to do it so unconsciously."

“Loneliness becomes an acid that eats away at you.” 

I strongly reccomend you to read one or two books of Haruki Murakami and you will certainly want to read more of them. They are all wonderful!

Thanks for the visit! :)

Thursday, October 17, 2013

Winter is Coming..


It has been quite a long autumn. Counting days passing does not help at all. When you are waiting for something or someone, life is not that easy. It has been raining a lot lately. According to the weather forecast it might snow soon. Well, it snows a lot here. I like it when it is pouring down and covering the ground as white and yet I hate it when it is so cold and no blanket helps when you terribly miss your loved ones. As the autumn is so hard to bear,  Let the winter go away quickly...

Winter is coming..

This photo was taken last winter on a very cold day. The winter was then so much enjoyable unlike this coming one. It was relaxing to watch snowflakes and taking a walk on the snow listening to the sound of the pieces of ice cracking under each step.


Here I've added a wonderful piece of music.
Enjoy the time you spend with your loved ones.
Never miss a second.


Finally, two absolutely meaningful quotes by Ernest Hemingway.

"My life used to be full of everything. Now if you aren't with me I haven't a thing in the world.”

“That night at the hotel, in our room with the long empty hall outside and our shoes outside the door, a thick carpet on the floor of the room, outside the windows the rain falling and in the room light and pleasant and cheerful, then the light out and it exciting with smooth sheets and the bed comfortable, feeling that we had come home, feeling no longer alone, waking in the night to find the other one there, and not gone away; all other things were unreal. We slept when we were tired and if we woke the other one woke too so one was not alone. Often a man wishes to be alone and a girl wishes to be alone too and if they love each other they are jealous of that in each other, but I can truly say we never felt that. We could feel alone when we were together, alone against the others ... But we were never lonely and never afraid when we were together. I know that the night is not the same as the day: that all things are different, that the things of the night cannot be explained in the day, because they do not then exist, and the night can be a dreadful time for lonely people once their loneliness has started. But with Catherine there was almost no difference in the night except that it was an even better time. If people bring so much courage to the world the world has to kill them to break them, so of course it kills them. The world breaks every one and afterward many are strong at the broken places. But those that will not break it kills. It kills the very good and the very gentle and the very brave impartially. If you are none of these you can be sure it will kill you too but there will be no special hurry.” 

- Ernest Hemingway, A Farewell to Arms




Tuesday, June 18, 2013

Oh Love!

Autumn in Istanbul
Autumn in Istanbul 

"There are several kinds of love. One is a selfish, mean, grasping, egotistical thing which uses love for self-importance. This is the ugly and crippling kind. The other is an outpouring of everything good in you — of kindness and consideration and respect — not only the social respect of manners but the greater respect which is recognition of another person as unique and valuable. The first kind can make you sick and small and weak but the second can release in you strength, and courage and goodness and even wisdom you didn’t know you had.
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If you love someone — there is no possible harm in saying so — only you must remember that some people are very shy and sometimes the saying must take that shyness into consideration.
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It sometimes happens that what you feel is not returned for one reason or another — but that does not make your feeling less valuable and good.
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don’t worry about losing. If it is right, it happens — The main thing is not to hurry. Nothing good gets away. " 
        - John Steinbeck 

Seagulls dancing in the sky / Kadıköy/ Istanbul



"In a Manner of speaking
I just want to say
That I could never forget the way
You told me everything
By saying nothing"

a very beautiful song by Nouvelle Vague